Hello folks, as I sit here by this beautiful fire I hope I don't get smoked out.
Like to record something that I just learned sitting here by this fire today. It's a beautiful day 64 degrees and I'm Mr. Fire sitting outside.

I don't want to talk about relationships and being alone and what that entails mostly, I think a lot of this isn't my own. My own beliefs I think a lot of relationships that are at least a lot of them that I had.

We lived I don't want to say a lie, but it was kind of alive.

Let's start from scratch throughout your entire life to this very second this very day. Everything on TV, the mainstream media, Hollyweird and everything else. Every movie, you know.

The boy finds a girl they live happily ever after the boy struggles and the girl finds him and bla bla bla, inevitably it's always the same. The boy and a girl get together and they live happily ever after in this pristine, beautiful world. That Hollyweird wants us to believe exists. And we see this our entire life and you know, we're born and raised on it. I'm just as guilty of it as anyone you start to believe it. You believe that?

Life does not go on unless you have a significant other in it.

So we live like that. We get ourselves into relationships where we're living a lie. We don't really want to be in that relationship, but we're more afraid of going out or being alone because you've been told as us the jet that's coming in. Being we've been told our whole lives that being alone is not good.

It's not a good thing to be. If you're alone, you're losing.

In the process, we live a lie. We live in a relationship because we're afraid of breaking out on our own. We're afraid of those months, those days, those weeks, maybe those years maybe the rest of your life that I'm alone.

In this scares you because we've been taught not to be alone.

I'm not advocating being on a medicating every relationship is bad. But from my personal past there's been a few of them where I had to get the wake up call and I had to be like, Wow, you need to get out of here. You're staying in a relationship just to be with someone.

Okay? We just because you're afraid of going out venturing into that large realm by yourself.

And here's the point of the video.

Don't do that disservice to yourself or your partner. If you're staying in a relationship because you're afraid of leaving, you're afraid of what might be out there for you and I'm getting smoked out. So I might as a stand up here. What might be out there for you on that wide open realm of singleness. If you're afraid of that, and you're staying in relationships because of that. You're doing yourself a huge disservice.

You're wasting time valuable precious time. Where you might have the opportunity, if you are alone, not advocating it. But if you are alone, you might have that opportunity to figure out who you really are.

There might be a reason life is pushing you in that direction. So don't fight it. And again, I'm not advocating everyone will go through a breakup, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. You know what I'm talking about, you know what's wrong?

searching your heart and if you feel that it's wrong, and only reason you're staying is because you need someone. You need someone a companion in your life, then you're doing a disservice to both of you in his time. Maybe you step outside of that bounds.

Yeah, I meet a lot of smokers I'm sitting here, but that's really what this video is about. It's about don't be afraid to leave. Don't be afraid of being alone.

It's not all that bad. Believe me. And you really may find you may come to terms with that person who has been hidden all this time. Hidden under that I got to be with someone so I'm going to stay in a relationship whether it's good or it's bad.

Take that step if you need to. If your relationship is good, and only you can know that stage Sure, sure.

With this any hints or delts might want to do some research you might well ask your heart. Ask yourself, Where do I go? And don't be afraid of being alone my friends. That's what life is about sometimes.

All right, eat enough smoke. Good day. Love y'all.