We've all experienced this throughout our lives, because we've been told since the womb, that we were to be with somebody. We start off being in a family we become dependent on that family as a child to sustain our life. And that's the way. Nature is. And then as we get older we move on to the home, but that point we've been told that you're now to raise a family or to get a wife or a husband, and to raise a family.